Different People

I know it’s been quite a long time I wrote something here.
Happy New Year All.

I have been actually meeting different kinds of people over the past
few days. My friend keeps telling me, just don’t expect things to be rosy always.
People are not the same and don’t believe one can be there for you sometimes.

In the past few days what I learnt from this world was, these days many have lost
the art of talking. There are some people who think talking is like nailing on a
Wooden door. The politeness that one has to inculcate has become a bygone manner.
Recently I had to get in touch with few people for seeking their help. I was always
been replied with a mono-syllable answer. I could not conclude whether it was their
habit of answering or they really don’t want to take the pain of answering. I was not
in a mindset to be optimistic and consider them to be their habit.

There are these other people who always move in flocks. They remain to be in a team for
years together and try not to get out of their shell. Prioritizing a relationship does not mean avoiding or ignoring other relationships. Strange, people feel acquaintances are risk.
I think it’s often they look at the darker side of life thinking that they cannot get along with new people. They miss to give a thought that it could be the sweetest experience too.

There are these people who are extremely helpful. They are so broadminded that they can do everything for someone. They value relationships so much that it gives a comfort feeling for the other person. They are one among those great livings who empathize and are great helping hands.

There are these kinds of people who seem to be getting along well. But actually it’s the necessity that makes them or forces them to get along. I wouldn't say they are completely true.

There are these people who always think about the kind of impression that might get created among their friends when they step forward. They are good but are not bold enough thinking that their friends might not like them helping other than the one in the circle.


Ok, ultimately the crux is one forgets empathy, thinking s/he is very assertive. People are under a wrong impression that if one has to be assertive they should be extremely hard hearted. Well, being assertive does not mean one has to loose all those soft qualities or empathy completely. Sometimes I feel taking care of oneself is not only the purpose of our birth.It extends to so many qualifying deeds one has to render during his lifetime. Helping tendency, empathy, politeness are in fact an art of living. Small changes in ones attitude, manners and habits can multifold into many good things. Even if someone cannot be a helping hand still will not hurt.


Its formula that I thought of would bee too good. If you are helped at your critical time, just remember you are entitled to help someone in need another time. Count your blessings.